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I think one of the most naïve things I have ever done was assume that other people love the way I do. It wasn’t a belief I consciously chose. In fact, I don’t think I realised I was carrying it until recently. It simply existed in the background of my life, quietly shaping the way I understood relationships, friendships, and human connection. Because I am naturally curious about people, I assumed curiosity was a common language and just because I wanted to understand others d

I think one of the saddest things society ever did was convince people that marriage is a finish line. Somewhere along the way, love stopped being something sacred and slowly became something performative. Nowadays, marriage became less about finding a soul you can safely unravel beside and more about proving you were chosen. Proving you are desirable, successful, worthy and unrealistically complete. And maybe that is why so many people are quietly suffering inside relationsh